redefine

• remember

• respell

• redefine • remember • respell •

Alexandra Paretta is a multi-dimensional, multi-disciplinary teacher, healer, writer, artist, and activist whose focus is the intersections between sex, somatics, spirituality, and anarcha-feminism.

The reoccurring themes woven throughout her work include energy, intention, movement, sensation, expression, synthesis, pleasure, catharsis, grief, alchemy, autonomy, non-dualism, cycles, death, transformation, and rebirth.

Alexandra’s work is deeply intimate and doesn’t shy away from what is considered radical or taboo by Western cultural standards. Her ideas are polarizing and potent, calling for extreme resistance and abolition of violent and oppressive systems and ideologies, namely, from white supremacy, capitalism, patriarchy, and colonialism.

She approaches her work as a sexologist through a trauma-informed and somatic lens, highlighting the importance of reintegrating the wisdom of the body that has been intentionally severed to serve the interests of white supremacist capitalist patriarchy and colonialism.

Alexandra weaves archetypal psychology found in mythology and astrology to help people connect to and understand the identities, roles, dynamics, and stories present in their lives in order to connect more deeply to themselves, their purpose, others, and life itself. She is purposeful and intense, but always invites tenderness and humor in to ease the pain of transition, grief, and change. Her mission to guide and inspire those who desire to connect to and experience the freest, most authentic expression of their sexuality and identity, and embrace nurturing, interdependent relationships.

About

lucid respells describes my modus operandi. the way I move through life
& how I encourage my clients to approach the work we collaborate on. awake. aware. in touch. a process of re-membering once disjointed fragments of the self. rewriting. casting new spells with agency. defined by your authentic desires. pleasure & individuality reclaimed by you.

to be lucid is to possess clarity
& discernment —

to be able to harness and synthesize the body’s senses, one’s intuition, and perceptions to understand what is happening internally and externally. Disconnection between the mind, body, and spirit results in a fragmented state of being, leading to disillusionment because the full picture can’t come through and be illuminated. Viewing and moving through life in limited dimensions means the blinders are on and the full story isn’t being told.

Igniting the body, mind, and spirit and allowing them to be in direct communication with one another means that awareness is heightened and obscurities are removed.

Lucid dreaming occurs when the person sleeping becomes aware they are asleep, allowing them to gain more control over what occurs in the dream. To become lucid in one’s own waking life means harnessing autonomy as a result of being a more integrated person and accessing more of one’s potential.

the world is made up of narrative, & the accumulation of the narratives we internalize cast us under spells.

These spells can begin before we are able to even walk or speak.

They impress upon the way we view ourselves,
other people, and life itself.

Most of these spells deeply hook into us without our consent.

We don’t have the ability to say no because we are vulnerable and impressionable. We aren’t aware of what’s taking place.

The juxtaposition of being under a spell, similar to being asleep, is that we aren’t aware of the spells we are under. We don’t know that we don’t know what we don’t know. This invisible boundary then informs the way we think, feel, and perceive life.